Why don't I get paid more? Eve came later and still earns much more!
True, Eve has more ideas...
Still, I should go there already!
Christina went there the other day and it was so humiliating to be told no....
He promised me a raise a year ago, am I not doing something right?
Yes, that could be the reason....
A trivial but all the more powerful story that plays out in the minds of thousands of people! I have something important to say, but how do I start? I wonder what the other person will say?
There are many misunderstandings during communication!
I've seen the most successful and well-functioning connections - relationships between couples, colleagues, business relationships, family ties - almost completely destroyed over small things.
One reason is when the two parties simply don't talk to each other! "the other should know by now!" "why do we have to talk about everything?"
Or when for every sentence you have some bad memory of the other person, you are convinced you only mean them harm! "I had a bad day, I just want to relax..." "You never listen to me! It's always stupid TV and friends!" "you're sitting there with your phone in your hand!" "but you never have time to do anything with me!"
Or when the two sides talk past each other as if they don't speak the same language! Most of the conversations, instead of being about something new, just get lost in the fog...
DIFFICULT WITHOUT INNER HARMONY!
Speaking or writing is already the second step in communication. What you want to express in some way starts with your thoughts. You have an inner dialogue, which is perfectly normal. You sometimes speak your thoughts to yourself. It's like in cartoons: you have an angel on one shoulder and a little devil on the other. And they murmur things in your ear.
Communication starts here! It comes from what you think and feels about yourself, your environment and the people in it.
Without inner harmony, your communication leads to much more misunderstanding and conflict.
László is a consultant, instructor and coach. As a former architect, he has retained much of his engineering perspective while working through the impossible with his international clients, alongside realistic common sense. He has helped many people around the world remember who they are and how to take the next step in their lives with courage, compassion and confidence.
LÁSZLÓ Rém
The Founder of THE REAL SHIFTER & RELINE THETAHEALING™ CERTIFICATION OF SCIENCE & MASTER INSTRUCTOR AND ADVISORY - CONSULTANT
We often want to change what is the next step, instead of being aware of our inner values!
External communication, such as speech, clothing, and hairstyle, can only create an image of yourself for a while - even hours. If it is not in harmony with your inner communication, you will feel bad about yourself.
Yet, you see it everywhere you go - buy a new dress, go to the hairdresser, surround yourself with cool people, or a tiny handbag from a luxury brand will make you the most successful!
So why is it the trend now?
Besides being a consumer society.... Everything has sped up. Whether you like it or not, they are affecting you! It's hard to ignore this trend, but you can't! And what's more, it takes a lot less effort than you might first think.
External communication, such as speech, clothing, and hairstyle, can only create an image of yourself for a while - even hours. If it is not in harmony with your inner communication, you will feel bad about yourself.
Yet, you see it everywhere you go - buy a new dress, go to the hairdresser, surround yourself with cool people, or a tiny handbag from a luxury brand will make you the most successful!
So why is it the trend now?
Besides being a consumer society.... Everything has sped up. Whether you like it or not, they are affecting you! It's hard to ignore this trend, but you can't! And what's more, it takes a lot less effort than you might first think.
External changes make an incredibly rapid difference!
Just think, you're getting your first haircut in weeks. They do your hair and you feel like a new person in just 30-40 minutes! People notice you, wink at you, and you even get compliments at home. In just two days, everything changed. It's like nothing ever happened. You understand now, right?
External changes can bring very quick results, but if you want lasting results, you have to start from the inside!
Our inner dialogues determine how we succeed in connecting with others.
When an external influence makes a change in you, it is not to be underestimated! It can even be appreciated because it shows that you have the ingredients you need. However, it makes a big difference if you want to make a lasting change.
The image you create of yourself determines everything you do!
On your two shoulders, the voices of your inner image are speaking to you! Not an angel and an evil imp, but your inner voice. And your inner voice will suggest to you what is safest. The question is, what does this safety mean, based on your inner values and memories?! Because what is safe for you on the conscious side may not be the same as what you accept on the unconscious side.
Creating inner harmony by changing your thinking.
Your thoughts are heavily influenced by your past memories.
A mother and her child find a garter snake in the garden. The mother runs screaming at the top of her lungs to take her child and escape from the garden! She immediately sees that the snake is the greatest danger to them both! Not even considering his options, he screams and flees the scene with his child.
How different the story and outcome is if the mother happens to love nature and its inhabitants. She recognises the snake and reacts to the situation with complete calm.
What you have heard, experienced and stored up with emotion will define the way you see the world around you. And that is how you talk to others!
By changing the way you think about yourself, you will change the way you feel about yourself, your determination, and your confidence and you will be more successful in getting your message across!
After your haircut, you will feel more confident, prettier, attractive, acceptable, self-assured, poised, etc. because you already have these characteristics. The external stimulus has only awakened this and briefly set it in motion.
If you reverse this effect mechanism and reinforce your inner values, you will feel extraordinary doesn't matter if there is a star hairdresser or isn't!
Have you ever had a conversation with someone you've only known for about 5 minutes yet still felt good about yourself? Like you've known each other for 100 years... right? More than likely the reason for this is that his or her inner spark is strong and balanced. The person you experienced it with was there, at that moment, in harmony with themselves. He or she gave you what he or she felt was true within himself or herself (whether or not this is lasting is another question...)
When you feel balanced, so composed, so rounded, then the compliments will surely come: "you are so nice to talk to!" "you always see everything better!" "you make me feel at ease!"
The Aligned Communication 2.0 online course is simple but profound:
Because we reveal the difficulties and limitations of communication in a way that everyone can understand.
Once we understand limitations, we gain insight into many areas of life. With insight, we have the next step towards a new design. From there, all that remains is an active experience.
As we move away from barriers, fears, and conditions to communication, the quality of connection to others changes. Most importantly, we will have a better relationship with ourselves.
The Aligned Communication 2.0 online course
Often the reasons for communication breakdowns are not the lack of the best communication techniques, but simple areas such as expectations, fears and conditions.
A very large part of conflict arises from simply listening to our own inner stories and reliving the emotions attached to them.
Discover simply how you can improve your communication to get your message across!
Discover how you are limiting yourself and develop a real self-image!
Discover how you can communicate simply and effectively!
Learn how to create an atmosphere that makes it easy to talk!
Dates for the launch of the Aligned Communication 2.0 course:
THE STRUCTURE OF THE Aligned Communication 2.0 ONLINE COURSE
Chapter 01: Foundations 2 lessons 6,5 min
Laying the foundations of the course
Chapter 02: Definitions 9 lessons 40 min
Terms are also used throughout the course.
Chapter 03: Communication 3 lessons 20 min
The two major aspects of communication. Where to focus your attention when communicating.
Chapter 04: Communication blocks 4 lessons 38 min
Formation and interpretation of unconscious patterns and action steps.
Chapter 05: Misunderstandings in communication 6 lessons 1hr 30min
Discover the most common misunderstandings and their causes in communication.
Chapter 06: Unblocking 3 lessons 42 min
Learn how to change subconscious and emotional patterns
Chapter 07: Meditation 2 lessons 19 min
A powerful guided meditation, based on the understandings and emotions you have accumulated during your work
Chapter 08: Focus 2 lessons 18,5 min
Practical advice on why and where to focus your attention.
Chapter 09: The new self-image 3 lessons 20 min
Discover and shape your true self-image! And visualise the change with another powerful guided meditation!
Chapter 10: Communication situations 3 lessons 21 min
3 common communication environments
Chapter 11: Practical steps 2 lessons 19 min
Some practical steps in communication.
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Klára Nagy
Katalin Donogán
You're not talking into thin air!
I liked the way the whole workshop was structured, but what I would highlight most is that you seemed to be talking about your experiences. For me, you were a good example because I could see that it can be done, that there is a value for the energy invested.
Processes have strongly started in me
The goal we were working towards, at the end of the workshop, was already solved. I realised that it wasn't about that, it was about seeing situations more clearly and that really helped me to solve them. This is a very positive thing for me. I have started strong processes, I am still working on them, and the workbook we received is useful for this, because I can go over what I have learned again.
Anyone who has not yet done self-awareness can start!
I had a great time at the Workshop! I re-read the "material" workbook on the train. I wanted to think about what I had heard while it was still fresh. It confirmed that we do need to keep "working" on ourselves. No matter how old you are. We must always be aware of our own behaviour, manifestations and expressions.
I'd love to hear from you!
Want to take the next step towards success? Do you want to find solutions for yourself that bring simple but lasting change to your life?
You can choose from a variety of programs for you and your friends, as well as tailor-made workshops, mindset programs and personalconsultations.
I'd like to have a talk with you to find out what works (or doesn't work), and together we can find what works best for you!
Hope to see you soon!
With Love and Gratitude, László Rém
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