There are important things to discuss.... There are even more important things, but nobody listens!!!
If you've had enough of that, then
You should go to him already....
A trivial but all the more powerful story that plays out in the minds of thousands of people! I have something important to say, but how do I start? I wonder what the other person will say?
I've seen the most successful and well-functioning connections - relationships between couples, colleagues, business relationships, family ties - almost completely destroyed over small things.
One reason is when the two parties simply don't talk to each other! "the other should know by now!" "why do we have to talk about everything?"
Or when for every sentence you have some bad memory of the other person, you are convinced you only mean them harm! "I had a bad day, I just want to relax..." "You never listen to me! It's always stupid TV and friends!" "you're sitting there with your phone in your hand!" "but you never have time to do anything with me!"
Or when the two sides talk past each other as if they don't speak the same language! Most of the conversations, instead of being about something new, just get lost in the fog...
Speaking or writing is already the second step in communication. What you want to express in some way starts with your thoughts. You have an inner dialogue, which is perfectly normal. You sometimes speak your thoughts to yourself. It's like in cartoons: you have an angel on one shoulder and a little devil on the other. And they murmur things in your ear.
Communication starts here! It comes from what you think and feels about yourself, your environment and the people in it.
Without inner harmony, your communication leads to much more misunderstanding and conflict.
László Rém is the creator of The Real Shifter© programs, which offer a different approach from the usual methods, combining rationality and spirituality, Western knowledge and Eastern philosophies with techniques proven by leading coaches, masters and teachers.
László is a consultant, instructor and coach. As a former architect, he has retained much of his engineering perspective while working through the impossible with his international clients, alongside realistic common sense. He has helped many people around the world remember who they are and how to take the next step in their lives with courage, compassion and confidence.
The Founder of THE REAL SHIFTER & RELINE
THETAHEALING™ CERTIFICATION OF SCIENCE &
MASTER INSTRUCTOR AND ADVISORY - CONSULTANT
External communication, such as speech, clothing, and hairstyle, can only create an image of yourself for a while - even hours. If it is not in harmony with your inner communication, you will feel bad about yourself.
Yet, you see it everywhere you go - buy a new dress, go to the hairdresser, surround yourself with cool people, or a tiny handbag from a luxury brand will make you the most successful!
So why is it the trend now?
Besides being a consumer society.... Everything has sped up. Whether you like it or not, they are affecting you! It's hard to ignore this trend, but you can't! And what's more, it takes a lot less effort than you might first think.
External communication, such as speech, clothing, and hairstyle, can only create an image of yourself for a while - even hours. If it is not in harmony with your inner communication, you will feel bad about yourself.
Yet, you see it everywhere you go - buy a new dress, go to the hairdresser, surround yourself with cool people, or a tiny handbag from a luxury brand will make you the most successful!
So why is it the trend now?
Besides being a consumer society.... Everything has sped up. Whether you like it or not, they are affecting you! It's hard to ignore this trend, but you can't! And what's more, it takes a lot less effort than you might first think.
External changes make an incredibly rapid difference!
Just think, you're getting your first haircut in weeks. They do your hair and you feel like a new person in just 30-40 minutes! People notice you, wink at you, and you even get compliments at home. In just two days, everything changed. It's like nothing ever happened. You understand now, right?
External changes can bring very quick results, but if you want lasting results, you have to start from the inside!
When an external influence makes a change in you, it is not to be underestimated! It can even be appreciated because it shows that you have the ingredients you need. However, it makes a big difference if you want to make a lasting change.
The image you create of yourself determines everything you do!
On your two shoulders, the voices of your inner image are speaking to you! Not an angel and an evil imp, but your inner voice. And your inner voice will suggest to you what is safest. The question is, what does this safety mean, based on your inner values and memories?! Because what is safe for you on the conscious side may not be the same as what you accept on the unconscious side.
Your thoughts are heavily influenced by your past memories.
A mother and her child find a garter snake in the garden. The mother runs screaming at the top of her lungs to take her child and escape from the garden! She immediately sees that the snake is the greatest danger to them both! Not even considering his options, he screams and flees the scene with his child.
How different the story and outcome is if the mother happens to love nature and its inhabitants. She recognises the snake and reacts to the situation with complete calm.
What you have heard, experienced and stored up with emotion will define the way you see the world around you. And that is how you talk to others!
After your haircut, you will feel more confident, prettier, attractive, acceptable, self-assured, poised, etc. because you already have these characteristics. The external stimulus has only awakened this and briefly set it in motion.
If you reverse this effect mechanism and reinforce your inner values, you will feel extraordinary doesn't matter if there is a star hairdresser or isn't!
Have you ever had a conversation with someone you've only known for about 5 minutes yet still felt good about yourself? Like you've known each other for 100 years... right? More than likely the reason for this is that his or her inner spark is strong and balanced. The person you experienced it with was there, at that moment, in harmony with themselves. He or she gave you what he or she felt was true within himself or herself (whether or not this is lasting is another question...)
When you feel balanced, so composed, so rounded, then the compliments will surely come: "you are so nice to talk to!" "you always see everything better!" "you make me feel at ease!"
Because we reveal the difficulties and limitations of communication in a way that everyone can understand.
Once we understand limitations, we gain insight into many areas of life. With insight, we have the next step towards a new design. From there, all that remains is an active experience.
As we move away from barriers, fears, and conditions to communication, the quality of connection to others changes. Most importantly, we will have a better relationship with ourselves.
Often the reasons for communication breakdowns are not the lack of the best communication techniques, but simple areas such as expectations, fears and conditions.
A very large part of conflict arises from simply listening to our own inner stories and reliving the emotions attached to them.
Dates for the launch of the Aligned Communication 2.0 course:
Pre-Launch: 21st NOV 2022
Soft-Launch: 1st DEC 2022
Launch: 8th DEC 2022
USD / EUR
197.00
Laying the foundations of the course
Terms are also used throughout the course.
The two major aspects of communication. Where to focus your attention when communicating.
Formation and interpretation of unconscious patterns and action steps.
Discover the most common misunderstandings and their causes in communication.
Learn how to change subconscious and emotional patterns
A powerful guided meditation, based on the understandings and emotions you have accumulated during your work
Practical advice on why and where to focus your attention.
Discover and shape your true self-image! And visualise the change with another powerful guided meditation!
3 common communication environments
Some practical steps in communication.
Want to take the next step towards success? Do you want to find solutions for yourself that bring simple but lasting change to your life?
You can choose from a variety of programs for you and your friends, as well as tailor-made workshops, mindset programs and personal consultations.
I'd like to have a talk with you to find out what works (or doesn't work), and together we can find what works best for you!
Hope to see you soon!
With Love and Gratitude,
László Rém
